生死之間Life and Death

 
圖片來源為Mirror
大概是截圖於原始的影片(原始影片應該是用手機拍，所以畫質不清晰)

先說明一下，大概只有台灣(不知道中國大陸是不是)
父親節是八月八號，
應該很明顯吧?
是因為諧音關係
所以其他國家父親節可不是這天

以這新聞為例
6月15日為英國的父親節
主人翁-小男孩Gino前往他父親的墓，獻上父親節卡片

與跟往年不同的是，他收到了天堂爸爸給他的信!!
當然是其他人寫的，不可能是老爸親筆
即使通靈也需要別人寫
而且就我看起來，那封信感覺是用打的?

那兇手是誰呢?
當然是拍攝這影片的人!
拍攝影片的人是??

Gino的母親Gayle

現在是2014年，Gino8歲，
老爹掛時，他才3歲
其實記憶應該很模糊了。
但Gino還是在墓前放了有「爸爸，你是最棒的！」字樣的卡片。(這應是老媽教導有方吧
放完卡片後，Gino發現有一封信是給他的
Gayle問他上面寫了什麼
Gino在讀完信件後，說「這是從天堂來的信！」
並把信帶回家了~~
影片拍攝完以後，他還哭了

老母公開這段影片的理由是
希望別的家庭可以激發靈感聯繫家人間的感情
當然有人會覺得這方法不好吧?
那你覺得要用怎樣的方法來說明，已去世的親人說明他愛著在世的人呢?
如果去世前久病的親人還蠻適合寫信，像是電影《P.S.我愛你》
或是我忘記哪個保險公司的廣告，父親先預定錄影給小孩
你要選擇哪種呢?

信的內容:

Hi Gino, thank you for coming to see me on Father's Day.

I know you don't remember me very well as I came here when you were only three-and-a-half but I do see you, Sophie, nanny and Granny and dad and auntie Laura all the time.

Even though you can't see me I see you are doing very well at school. You have moved to Castledown which I think was a very good idea and yes, I hear you saying bad words.

Sometimes when you are angry, it's ok to be angry, but please don't use bad words.

It isn't very nice to hear.

I wanted to come and see you but I can't 'cause it's not allowed when we go to heaven so I sneaked a letter inside for you to read. I miss you and I

don't get older like mummy does!

Gino turns around smiling as Gayle gasps and says "cheeky!".

After pausing briefly, he continues: "I hope I know how much I love you Gino, I am always listening and watching you all so don't worry.

Give nanny and Granddad and auntie Laura a kiss for me please.

Lots of love, Daddy."

懶得看英文的人
下面是中文翻譯:

嗨！Gino！謝謝你在父親節的時候來看我！
我知道你已經不太記得我了，
畢竟我來到這裡的時候，你才三歲半，
但是，我一直都有在看著你們！
即使你看不見我，我還是有看到，你在學校表現得很好、你搬家，
當然，我也聽到你說髒話。有時候你生氣，生氣當然可以，
但是請不要說髒話，這是非常不好的。
我想去看你，但我不能，因為天堂規定不准，所以我偷偷寫信給你。
我很想你，我可不像你媽媽一樣有變老喔！
我希望你知道我有多愛你Gino，我總是聽著、看著大家，所以請不要擔心。
替我給保姆、爺爺和阿姨一個吻好嗎？很愛你的爸爸
(中文翻譯來自於聯合新聞網)

Mirrorm原版英文新聞
原始資料Facebook影片

 
以上是鏡子與她的父母

我必須講看了兩篇新聞
真的講法、圖片會讓人誤會...
看到這張圖片會有種非常孤單的感覺
再看看下一張，她有好多妹妹與弟弟!!!
現在你覺得兩張圖的感覺，
我能說選上面那張圖是選的好!

 

英國13歲少女亞西娜(Athena Orchard)，
因為罹患骨肉瘤(osteosarcoma)於逝世。
有的新聞寫骨癌、或是骨肉癌
其實是骨肉癌吧

骨肉癌是我在近一年聽到的新的癌症名詞
因為身邊的朋友的朋友有人得
最近有漫畫也開始有這類的作品
或許我應該來寫一篇關於骨肉癌、或是這部漫畫作品

回到正題

在亞西娜的家人在整理她的遺物時，
無意間發現亞西娜竟在鏡子後面留下約3千字的遺言(當然是英文

以下為鏡子原文(英文新聞mailonline)
Happiness depends upon ourselves.

Maybe it's not about the happy ending, maybe it's about the story.

The purpose of life is a life of purpose.

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.

Happiness is a direction not a destination.

Thank you for existing.

Be happy, be free, believe, forever young. You know my name, not my story.

You have heard what I've done, but not what I've been through.

Love is like glass, looks so lovely but it's easy to shatter.

Love is rare, life is strange, nothing lasts and people change.

Every day is special, so make the most of it, you could get a life ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day.

Life is only bad if you make it bad.

If someone loves you, then they wouldn't let you slip away no matter how hard the situation is.

Remember that life is full of ups and downs.

Never give up on something you can’t go a day without thinking about.

I want to be that girl who makes the bad days better and the one that makes you say my life has changed since I met her!

Love is not about how much you say I love you – it’s about how much you can prove it’s true.

Love is like the wind, you can feel it but you can't see it.

I'm waiting to fall in love with someone I can open my heart to.

Love is not about who you can see spending your future with, it's about who you can't see spending your life without...

Life is a game for everyone but love is the prize.

Only I can judge me.

Sometimes love hurts.

Now I’m fighting myself.

Baby I can feel your pain.

Dreams are my reality.

It hurts but it’s okay, I’m used to it.

Don't be quick to judge me, you only see what I choose to show you... you don't know the truth.

I just want to have fun and be happy without being judged.

This is my life, not yours, don't worry about what I do.

People gonna hate you, rate you, break you, but how strong you stand, that’s what makes you… you!

There's no need to cry because I know you'll be by my side.


中文大概翻譯(引自JUKSY-這位13歲的少女已經過世，但她偷偷留給家人一份禮物，所有人在發現時都哭了。超感人！)
快樂是我們自己創造的，或許故事重點不在於Happy ending，而是在於故事的經過本身。

生命的意義在於有意義的活著，稍微多一點心思就可以讓平凡無奇的生活變得不同。

愛如此珍貴，而生命如此讓人不解，沒有事情可以永遠延續，而人總是在變。每天都是特別的，你可能明天就染上不治之症，所以讓每天都有它的價值。只有當你同意，生活才會真的變糟。

有時候愛也會讓人受傷。我現正和自己奮戰，我可以感受到那痛苦。夢境更像是我的真實，雖然很難受但還ok，我已經習慣了。

愛並不是看著一個人，想著要和他共度餘生；愛是看著一個人，無法想像自己的未來沒有他。生命對每個人來說都像一場競賽，而愛是唯一的獎賞。只有我能評斷我自己。

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以上是一位13歲的少女所寫出的文字，
我覺各位可以看看原文-英文，
這用詞其實不難(可能她只有13歲
不然可以google翻譯(這一篇我嘗試過，翻得還不錯，難得)
不禁讓我們想想自己是如何想自己的生活
生命是什麼?
愛又是什麼?