生死之間Life and Death

 
以上是鏡子與她的父母

我必須講看了兩篇新聞
真的講法、圖片會讓人誤會...
看到這張圖片會有種非常孤單的感覺
再看看下一張，她有好多妹妹與弟弟!!!
現在你覺得兩張圖的感覺，
我能說選上面那張圖是選的好!

 

英國13歲少女亞西娜(Athena Orchard)，
因為罹患骨肉瘤(osteosarcoma)於逝世。
有的新聞寫骨癌、或是骨肉癌
其實是骨肉癌吧

骨肉癌是我在近一年聽到的新的癌症名詞
因為身邊的朋友的朋友有人得
最近有漫畫也開始有這類的作品
或許我應該來寫一篇關於骨肉癌、或是這部漫畫作品

回到正題

在亞西娜的家人在整理她的遺物時，
無意間發現亞西娜竟在鏡子後面留下約3千字的遺言(當然是英文

以下為鏡子原文(英文新聞mailonline)
Happiness depends upon ourselves.

Maybe it's not about the happy ending, maybe it's about the story.

The purpose of life is a life of purpose.

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.

Happiness is a direction not a destination.

Thank you for existing.

Be happy, be free, believe, forever young. You know my name, not my story.

You have heard what I've done, but not what I've been through.

Love is like glass, looks so lovely but it's easy to shatter.

Love is rare, life is strange, nothing lasts and people change.

Every day is special, so make the most of it, you could get a life ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day.

Life is only bad if you make it bad.

If someone loves you, then they wouldn't let you slip away no matter how hard the situation is.

Remember that life is full of ups and downs.

Never give up on something you can’t go a day without thinking about.

I want to be that girl who makes the bad days better and the one that makes you say my life has changed since I met her!

Love is not about how much you say I love you – it’s about how much you can prove it’s true.

Love is like the wind, you can feel it but you can't see it.

I'm waiting to fall in love with someone I can open my heart to.

Love is not about who you can see spending your future with, it's about who you can't see spending your life without...

Life is a game for everyone but love is the prize.

Only I can judge me.

Sometimes love hurts.

Now I’m fighting myself.

Baby I can feel your pain.

Dreams are my reality.

It hurts but it’s okay, I’m used to it.

Don't be quick to judge me, you only see what I choose to show you... you don't know the truth.

I just want to have fun and be happy without being judged.

This is my life, not yours, don't worry about what I do.

People gonna hate you, rate you, break you, but how strong you stand, that’s what makes you… you!

There's no need to cry because I know you'll be by my side.


中文大概翻譯(引自JUKSY-這位13歲的少女已經過世，但她偷偷留給家人一份禮物，所有人在發現時都哭了。超感人！)
快樂是我們自己創造的，或許故事重點不在於Happy ending，而是在於故事的經過本身。

生命的意義在於有意義的活著，稍微多一點心思就可以讓平凡無奇的生活變得不同。

愛如此珍貴，而生命如此讓人不解，沒有事情可以永遠延續，而人總是在變。每天都是特別的，你可能明天就染上不治之症，所以讓每天都有它的價值。只有當你同意，生活才會真的變糟。

有時候愛也會讓人受傷。我現正和自己奮戰，我可以感受到那痛苦。夢境更像是我的真實，雖然很難受但還ok，我已經習慣了。

愛並不是看著一個人，想著要和他共度餘生；愛是看著一個人，無法想像自己的未來沒有他。生命對每個人來說都像一場競賽，而愛是唯一的獎賞。只有我能評斷我自己。

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以上是一位13歲的少女所寫出的文字，
我覺各位可以看看原文-英文，
這用詞其實不難(可能她只有13歲
不然可以google翻譯(這一篇我嘗試過，翻得還不錯，難得)
不禁讓我們想想自己是如何想自己的生活
生命是什麼?
愛又是什麼?